10 reminders
7/9/20251 min read


I’ve learned some important lessons over the past months
Sharing them here, as a self-reminder and for whoever might need it:
⭐︎Don’t stay longer than necessary where you don’t belong. You’ll only make yourself miserable and drag everyone around you into that vibration.
⭐︎Commitment from ego, fear, or guilt feels heavy. Commitment from the heart feels like expansion. Learn to sense the difference somatically, in your body.
⭐︎Don’t force yourself to commit just for the sake of it. When there’s genuine desire and peace, commitment flows naturally.
⭐︎You don’t need to choose hard paths to prove strength. That’s an ego trap. Life will bring challenges anyway… Maybe the real challenge now is to relax into ease. Expand your capacity for pleasure. Risk cringe and embarrassment. Let love unravel as you feel it.
⭐︎Sometimes the most spiritual thing is to embrace your desire and have fun. Allow yourself to get what you want. The bravest act might be giving yourself permission to succeed, one desire at a time.
⭐︎Responsibility isn’t the opposite of pleasure. True responsibility is giving your soul the best experience you can while you’re here.
⭐︎Maybe, from now on: try softer instead of harder.
⭐︎Life gets lighter when we trust first impulses and emotions -our natural GPS. Ask: How do I feel? If light, curious, joyful - green flag: go. If there’s tension: pause and reflect.
⭐︎“Doing the right thing” can also become an ego trap if it’s from mental morality, not a soul-deep yes.
⭐︎The most important skill we can develop is to deeply listen to our inner truth. Build a relationship with Source and your inner guidance system.
Clear decision-making is not just the base for everything else in life, it’s the very essence of the human journey, and what true education should be about. Yet society expects us to know how without ever teaching us. Let’s change that one human at a time...
